Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Only women bleed....

..Alice Cooper...

Only women bleed
..but men suffer hormonal disturbances, too, you know.

I can attest to that. I live with males. Have male friends. And have talked at length recently with friends, honest talk, about marriage and men.

Again, there is the assumption that women are hormonal but men are moved more by logic. But the truth is men are as hormonally driven as women. In fact, men have a number of hormonal cycles:
1) Men's testosterone, for instance, varies and goes up and down four or five times an hour.
2) There are daily cycles with testosterone being higher in the morning and lower at night.
3) Men have a monthly hormonal cycle that is unique to each man, but men can actually track their moods and recognize they are related to hormonal changes through the month.
4) We know that there are seasonal cycles with testosterone higher in November and lower in April.
5) We know about hormonal cycles with males during adolescence, but also the years between 40 and 55 have what we call male menopause or andropause.
6) Finally, we know there are hormonal changes in men going through Irritable Male Syndrome, related to stress in a man's life.
"What we've found is that one of the primary symptoms is denial. That is, men think the problem is anywhere other than in themselves."

Irritable Male Syndrome


I do not understand why some people are saying that women and men are exactly the same, and are denying the beautiful differences between men and women. All God's gifts are good, but they are not all the same. As I often say to people who tell me that they would like to serve the poor as I do, "What I can do, you cannot. What you can do, I cannot. But together we can do something beautiful for God." It is just this way with the differences between women and men.

God has created each one of us, every human being, for greater things-- to love and to be loved. But why did God make some of us men and others women? Because a woman's love is one image of the love of God, and a man's love is another image of God's love. Both are created to love, but each in a different way. Woman and man complete each other, and together show forth God's love more fully than either can do it alone. Mother Teresa

2 comments:

Julie said...

Very insightful and clears up many a suspicion of MINE! Thanks for the info, Leonie!

Chris said...

I love Mother Teresa. She was so wonderful and what she said was good.