Joy must be one of the pivots of our life. It is the token of a generous personality. Sometimes it is also a mantle that clothes a life of sacrifice and self-giving. A person who has this gift often reaches high summits. He or she is like a sun in a community.” ~ Mother Teresa
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Praying
Joy must be one of the pivots of our life. It is the token of a generous personality. Sometimes it is also a mantle that clothes a life of sacrifice and self-giving. A person who has this gift often reaches high summits. He or she is like a sun in a community.” ~ Mother Teresa
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
What is a Catholic priest?
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Today's Unschooling Examen
Unschooling examen? See here.
Saturday, October 16, 2010
Silence
Psalm 46:10: Be still, and know that I am God
In praying the mass, in praying with the priest, in being silent with Jesus as we receive Holy Communion, we can be stiil.....not a self-centred stillness.....not navel gazing stillness.....but the stillness of intimacy with God, the stillness of contemplation, of worship.
This is sacred silence.
The General Instruction of the Roman Missal,says ( number 45) .
"Sacred silence also, as part of the celebration, is to be observed at the designated times. Its purpose, however, depends on the time it occurs in each part of the celebration. Thus within the Act of Penitence and again after the invitation to pray, all recollect themselves; but at the conclusion of a reading or the homily, all meditate briefly on what they have heard; then after Communion, they praise and pray to God in their hearts. Even before the celebration itself, it is commendable that silence be observed in the church, in the sacristy, in the vesting room, and in adjacent areas, so that all may dispose themselves to carry out the sacred action in a devout and fitting manner."
Sacred means to be set apart for a holy purpose.
Silence becomes holy during Mass because silence at Mass is particularly set apart for God and worship.
Sacred silence during Mass, then, is a gift.
We should practice this sacred silence in our Masses. Practice becoming closer to God.
Hopefully, we will be encouraged in this by our priests in their celebration of Holy Mass. Hopefully we will not have to experience those "banal distractions"; the ones mentioned by the writer above and other distractions in the form of large or small extras; extra phrases and actions added to the Mass.
There is a time for silence, then,sacred silence, in our worship and liturgy.
There is a time for silence in our life, too. So we are not always at the beck and call of our phones, our texts, our Facebook notifications..So that we do not always have a lot of talk and a lot of music..but also some quiet times, in our lives, in our families.
We acknowledge this need for silence.
However, there is a time, there are times, when we should not practice silence.
Sacred silence is needed in our liturgy. Some quiet, set apart time is needed in our lives. But, sometimes, to be silent is the wrong thing.
Sometimes, instead of silence, we need to speak out. Speak out, in small ways, in big ways, as we are called, against things that are not right.
Against euthanasia, for example. Against abortion.
For chastity.
And, as lay people in our Church, in our parishes, sometimes we should not be silent about false teachings and practices.
We should speak out against these things; in Christian charity; perhaps simply by example. (Receving Holy Communion reverently so that others may know our belief that this is the Eucharist is Jesus).
Perhaps we should speak out by sharing books. Books about liturgy. About the teachings of the Church.
Perhaps we can make our comments, in a friendly ,casual manner as topics come up in conversation. With our smiles, with our hellos, our goodbyes, our social niceties.("Wasn't it lovely to see those little ones do that dance after Communion?" "Was it really?").
A simple statement. yet better than silence ( Silence is assent, says Paul Scofield as St Thomas More in A Man For All Seasons). Better than facile agreement. better than a full blown argument.
Perhaps, too, we can speak out by blogging. Sharing the teachings of the Church, sharing the liturgical legislation, sharing experiences with others.
For to be silent about these issues is not to be sacred or set apart. It is to be remiss.
It is when people who know better are silent, or worse, move from parishes to other more orthodox parishes,. that less than stellar practices are allowed to continue. in our liturgies and in our Church.
The role of the laity is to pray, to live the Good News, to take the Good News to others. We are not to be arrogant. We are to be pious in our worship. ( The Holy Father has said that, fulfilling the lay vocation involves working to "give expression in real life - also through political commitment - to the Christian view of anthropology and the social doctrine of the Church..").
But we are to be educated. And, once having been educated in what the Church teaches and why, especially with regard to the public liturgy of the Church ( for how we pray affects what we believe..lex orandi lex credendi..), then we must not remain silent. We must share our faith and knowledge and practice of prayer with others. In love. In big or little ways.
Each to his own.
What I desiderate in Catholics is the gift of bringing out what their religion is — I want a laity, not arrogant, not rash in speech, not disputatious, but men who know their religion, who enter into it, who know just where they stand, who know what they hold and what they do not, who know their creed so well that they can give an account of it, who know so much of history that they can defend it. I want an intelligent, well-instructed laity.
So wrote Cardinal Newman, Blessed John Henry Newman, in 1851. He went on to say...
I have no apprehension you will be the worse Catholics for familiarity with these subjects, provided you cherish a vivid sense of
God above and keep in mind that you have souls to be judged and saved. In all times the laity have been the measure of the Catholic spirit; they saved the Irish Church three centuries ago and they betrayed the Church in England. You ought to be able to bring out what you feel and what you mean, as well as to feel and mean it; to expose to the comprehension of others the fictions and fallacies of your opponents; to explain the charges brought against the Church, to the satisfaction, not, indeed, of bigots, but of men of sense, of whatever cast of opinion.
So, let us practice sacred silence in our liturgy. Let us savour some modicum of silence in our lives.
But also let us speak out in love when the situation demands it.
In our parishes. In our lives. In our example. In our discussions.
And, as the Holy Father has encouraged, via the new communication, the new media, the communication of our times - the Internet, be it in a public forum or on Facebook or a on a personal blog.
"Without fear we must set sail on the digital sea facing into the deep with the same passion that has governed the ship of the Church for two thousand years. Rather than for, albeit necessary, technical resources, we want to qualify ourselves by living in the digital world with a believer’s heart, helping to give a soul to the Internet’s incessant flow of communication" .Pope Asks Bloggers To Give Internet A Soul
Monday, October 11, 2010
Our Parishes
"It is in the parish that we learn to live our own faith solidly. This enables us to keep the rich tradition of the past alive and to re-propose its values in a secularised social environment which is often hostile and indifferent." Pope Benedict XVI
The rich theology of the Mass, unfolding in ritual over the centuries, becomes intelligible, both to young priests and to parishioners, gradually; by a familiarity that comes with repetition and with careful and consistent observance of the liturgical norms. If this is neglected, if the norms are ignored, a powerful means of transmitting the Church's teaching about the meaning of the Mass is lost.
This is why the Second Vatican Council teaches that "there must be no innovations unless the good of the Church genuinely and certainly requires them, and care must be taken that any new forms adopted should in some way grow organically from forms already existing" (Sacrosanctum concilium 23). ...On Rubrics and Divisions
It is, then, in our parishes that we learn to live the Faith; to keep the rich traditions of the past alive; to re-propose the values of Christianity in an often secular world.
As the Holy Father has said.
But this happens only in parishes where we see the growth of positive social capital, not exclusiveness amongst people and groups...and in parishes where the main focus of parish life is the prayer of the Church, the public liturgy of the Church..Holy Mass celebrated according to liturgical legislation..so that we adore Our Lord, we receive Him with reverence, we think of Him...and we take this faith in practical ways, small or large, to the wider parish life.
Friday, October 08, 2010
I walk the line...
Well, I also have the tune of Lady GaGa's Eh, Eh in my mind ... And Bruno Mars' Juat The Way You Are.
But it's Walk the Line that I want to write about . Because it describes the blogging experience .
I blog to share with family and friends. I blog about our life, as unschoolers, hence the title Living Without School. It is my personal blog. I write of our life , my life , our experiences, my experiences, our interests, my interests.
If you check the 1, 222 ( now 1,223!) blog posts since 2005, you will see a variety of posts on a variety of topics. Reflecting current interests.
In recent times, that interest has been the public liturgy of the Church.
I post our every day stuff, the liturgical year, to friends on Facebook. I tend, since the advent of Facebook, to publish D & M stuff only here on the blog, and daily stuff on Facebook.... D & M as in Deep and Meaningful. For me. As much as I can be deep and meaningful I guess.
And so I walk the line. How much to post? How much of me to share?
But, ultimately, the fact remains that this is my blog.
It is not a public discussion forum. It is not an online debate.
It is, pure and simple, my blog .
You don't have to read it if you don't want to. Or if you don't like the posts. Or my writing style.
Read other blogs if not mine .
It's okay.
I will continue to blog. To share my life without school. To share my interests.
To try to walk the line.
Monday, October 04, 2010
Fast Food and Holy Mass
For neither circumcision counts for anything, nor uncircumcision, but a new creation.
Peace and mercy be upon all who walk by this rule, upon the Israel of God.
Henceforth let no man trouble me; for I bear on my body the marks of Jesus.
The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit, brethren. Amen Galations 6:14-18
To my mind, people need masses that speak to the whys of life (glorifying in the cross) and they are tired of more fast food , in their masses..and in their diets.